22 August 1943 - Steve Carter

In Memory of
Sergeant STEPHEN HODGE CARTER

1545420, Royal Air Force Volunteer Reserve
who died 
on 23 July 1943
Son of Stephen and Annie Carter, of Sunderland.
Remembered with honour
SUNDERLAND (MERE KNOLLS) CEMETERY

Commemorated in perpetuity by
the Commonwealth War Graves Commission


22 Aug 43

Dear Angela
First, I must ask you to excuse the paper, I am having to use college file paper because it is almost impossible to obtain large writing pads here, and I don’t care for writing on small paper.
Your air-mail letter arrived about 3 days ago having taken just over 3 weeks to get here. I think the photo was very good, I had no bother in finding you at all and the X on the back was just a check on my eyesight. I can’t send you any photos like yours because, as I suppose you know, the N.E. Coast is noted for its heavy industry and smoke I think a pool like that on the photo would soon become full of grit and dirt if it were over here. However we are quite proud of our little ‘bits’ of country here and there and are very proud of our moors and dales. You will probably have heard about another thing we are very proud about – the best Infantry Regiment in the British Army – The Durham Light Infantry – there are always great arguments over here between the supporters of the 50th and the 51st Divisions but no one seems to gain anything.
We have had two good weeks from the weather point of view and I had one of them as my holiday week from work. I had quite a novel holiday – I spent four days with a long distance ‘lorry’ driver. The driver is a great friend of mine and we had quite a good time, we went down the Great North Road to a place called Newark and we spent two days in Nottingham. We had a little fruit but there was only apples, nothing as good as apricots. I have decided to spend my next holiday in the same way for a few reasons first – it is cheap, it’s different, and it doesn’t stop rail traffic needed for the war. The next week of weather was terrible, and I think that the American soldier who said that “Sunderland hasn’t got a climate, it just has weather” was just about right. You will have heard about the “Holidays at Home” schemes which we are having over here – they are quite a good idea and I went to hear an opera in one of our parks and I really enjoyed it, the singing was easily up to any Radio Opera standard. The beach has been open for bathing and I have been in about five times – usually about 8.00am – you can imagine it wasn’t too warm then.
Your mention of apricots and fruit has made mam very jealous because of the trouble to get fruit here. I have had a few very bitter cooking apples and mam has managed to bottle a few pounds of plums, so you can imagine her feelings when she heard about picking apricots and peaches. We have had to use stewed apples and rhubarb as jam in order to spread out our jam ration – jam takes a great part in our menu now. Mam and dad were away for a week about a month ago and did I have a trying time keeping house, I lived like a king for the first few days but towards the end of the week my diet consisted mainly of bread, jam, cheese and milk – you can imagine how pleased I was when I ‘answered’ the door (crazy phrase isn’t it) and found mam and dad standing there.
I was thinking I ought to engage you to write my college notes or should I say print them, because your printing is certainly easy to read. As for my lecture notes they are written on this paper and with the same scribble you are reading now (or trying to read) – there is one advantage and that is that no one else could use your notes because they could not decipher them. At present I am counting the weeks to the time when I get rid of boiler suits and start writing lecture notes again, I can’t quite decide now which is the worst work or college. I think work is the worst when I am at work, and college is worst when I am there – sounds a bit ‘Irish’ doesn’t it?
I got a piece of bad news the other day Steve Carter was killed. He was the boy who was writing to Kay Macaully and asked her to get me a correspondent in America. He was a navigator in the R.A.F. and was killed in a crash about a fortnight ago. It may seem a hard thing to say but we have got quite used to hearing of friends being killed – either on active service or during raids (-I am pleased to say that we haven’t had any for a while now). Perhaps sometime after the war I will be able to describe an air-raid from my point of view – I suppose you will have had plenty of descriptions from newspapermen’s points of view. I believe I mentioned another pal in the RAF who had been on some earlier daylight raids – he has been awarded the D.F.M. and also a bar to it, news like this makes me feel quite unsettled at still being at home but I suppose ‘they’ will come for me when they want me.
Well I am afraid I can’t think of any more to write hence I must close or start to ‘ramble’ in order to fill up space – I think you would prefer me to close so I will do so.
Be good!
Love
Harold
PS Please excuse the paper

18 July 1943

18 July 1943

Dear Angela
Please excuse the paper, it is the best I can do at the present. Large writing pads are almost impossible to buy now so I am using some of my stock of college paper. I am “fire-watching” at present and as the table was not made for writing on you must also excuse the scribble being worse than usual.
I think I had just finished exams when I last wrote to you – well I have the results now and am pleased to say that I got through. I am rather sorry at being the only Mechanical Engineer in 2nd Year to pass out of six – I will certainly miss the other chaps. I should learn something next year as I will be the only person in at each lecture. I have been given another year before being called up into the services, and when the time comes I will go in at my own work.
We had the college sports a fortnight ago, and even though I wasn’t very fit and hadn’t recovered from the fatigue of exams, I managed to win the 100 yds, 120 hurdles and the high jump and got second in the 220 yds and the long jump – the times and distances were very poor because hardly anyone had had time to do any training – however it was a grand day.
I had a fortnight holiday after the exams and it was just a series of dances, visits to the “pictures”, and rides on my bike – however I have once again donned boiler suits and gone back to work among oil and grease for 3 months. I don’t really mind work but the early rising doesn’t seem to agree with me at all.
Rod has received Ginny’s letter and has a reply written but not yet posted – he is with me now and we have both been having a good laugh because we are both as red as cherries with sun-burn. I must thank you for the photo, I think it is very good and that “sweet and prim” is the best way of describing you or perhaps I could put some more expression in to a whistle or a sigh – in short – I don’t think you would be short of ‘dates’ if you were over here!!! I am afraid you won’t be able to say anything as complimentary as the above about my photo as it does make me look a little sullen, but I suppose I do look like that, but I don’t think I am sullen.
I can’t think of any more to write and I haven’t any questions to ask at present, and I have none to answer so I will close with your advice –
Be good and write soon
Love
Harold

20 June 1943


20 June 1943

Dear Angela
I have been waiting for a reply from you but as none has arrived I have decided to put pen to paper myself.
At present I am having a short vacation before going back to work. I have just finished a week of exams and am waiting for the dreaded list being pinned up at College. I can’t quite realise that if I pass this year I will be taking my finals next year – however that remains to be seen.
I have been in the sea for a bathe twice this week and quite enjoyed it even if it was a little cold. The college sports are next Saturday and it seems as if I am going to have a ‘job’ to get a place in the sprints as some of the new students are fairly fast; and they have the advantage of being fit which is more than I am.
You will have heard about the Home Guard over here, well the College Company are going to enter a team for the H.G. sports so it seems as if I will have to get myself fit some-time.
I can’t remember if I gave you an address for Ginny Barnett to write to, but my friend has written three times in all and has had no reply. I will give you his address now just in case I haven’t sent it before
Mr RD Holt
Rostherne
Park Lea Road
Roker
Sunderland

I think I did send his address because I can recollect saying that he is usually called Rod – however there is no harm done in sending it a second time – (I must be losing my memory). However I can remember sending you a terrible photo and promising to send a better one, well I think you will agree that the one enclosed is better than the other one, even if is only a little better.
I had a ‘medical’ a few weeks ago and they seemed to think I was A.1 but I didn’t feel it – I will have to have an interview after the exam results are published, in order to decide my fate when I get my degree. At present I am neutral – I can’t decide which of the three services is the best for an engineer (?). Excuse the long sentences – my English never was very good.
I believe I once mentioned one of my pals being in the R.A.F. – he got the D.F.M. last week and every one at the ‘old’ school feels quite proud of him.
I don’t seem to have said much about the war yet but I am afraid I can’t tell you all I would like to – except that we had quite a taste of it during the last month or so – it is quite a sickly taste too. I don’t know whether the censor will let this pass or not, however I have left out all the details in the hope that he will.
Well, I must close now as I have run out of news. Hoping you receive the photo.
Love
Harold

17 March 1943

17/3/43

Dear Angela
Your letter arrived the same day that I posted my reply to your previous letter (I hope this makes sense). However I must admit that to prevent crowding of the letters is not my only excuse for not replying sooner – I have been absolutely full of work lately and have had very little time to myself, on top of that we have had a few unwanted visitors lately, but I am glad to report that some of them never went back. Well so much for excuses!
You will be over the shock of your exams and probably the shock of the results when you receive this. I have got mine to come yet. I had one paper last week and even though I did make a mess of it I was given a good pass – so I can’t quite grumble. The others come next week and last 8 days with two papers each day, I think I will have to cram the night before as I have done very little swotting up to the present. – however these are only college exams and I have until June to work for the University Exams. I think my Physics has reached a stage similar to your Spanish, I have thought about giving it up but it is of no use because I have to pass in it, I suppose I will just have to learn it like a parrot, because I am sure the human mind was not made to understand the depths of Heat and Light.
In reply to your views on the Englishman as he appears in America I can only say that from American magazines and films the American men students seem to have a failing for ‘baggy’ looking attire as you call it. I must admit that the American college girl does seem a little neater and tidier than the English, however that may be because I have only seen a small number of each. Everyone over here is wearing ‘baggy’ clothing at present and it is more out of necessity than tradition.
As for the photo I sent you, I must emphasise that it is a very poor one and I only sent it because I promised, I am going to have one taken at Easter when I will have a few days off and will be able to catch the studios open.
You mentioned your brother being ‘called up’ as we put it, and your point of view about him is the same as mam’s about me “I think it will do him good”. I will be having another taste of army life soon as we have another fortnight with the regular army at a camp on the moors – I suppose it will be another kill or cure course like all the rest – however it will mean more sing-songs about a ‘tinny’ piano!
I received one copy of the ‘Daily Cal’ and I quite enjoyed reading it, it appears that the whole University is just a mass of movement and that there is always something happening. I am afraid that we would seem a trifle dead over here at present, because of all the war duties etc which take up most of the time during each week, I have only played about three games of football since I started college, and I have only had running shoes on about four times which is quite a drop from the sport I had before. However such is war!
I saw my pal about writing to ‘Ginny’ and he said he had written twice so it seems that my cliché can be used again ‘Such is war!’ He has written again and she should receive a letter about the same time as you receive this – if not however here is the address
Mr RD Holt
Rostherne
Park Lea Road
Roker
Sunderland
Co Durham
I don’t quite know how he should be addressed as I am not sure of his correct name – he has two in everyday use either ‘Rod’ or ‘Reggie’ however she had better use ‘Rod’.
I close hoping you will excuse mistakes and that you passed your exams.
Love
Harold

17 January 1943 (although the letter is dated 1942) - Harold aged 19


17 Jan 1942

Dear Angela
Your letter arrived a few days ago a little late for Xmas, but as they say “better late than never”; thank you very much for the Xmas card it is a lovely photograph, and I am afraid that Sunderland Tech cannot boast of anything like that. It certainly seems that the University of California is a massive place with grounds and playing fields “on the spot”. I think Durham University would be about the same size if it were “collected”. Sunderland Tech is one college of Durham Univ. and comprises of two buildings one on each side of the street in the town, the rest of Durham Univ. is at Durham and Newcastle; so you can see that we at Sunderland are quite a small community on our own, but we have as good a reputation as any other college and we are quite proud of it.
Monkwearmouth? – I had expected that question and often intended to explain before you asked (if you get my meaning) – however I will try to explain it as short as possible and not be too boring. It all started about 674 A.D. when a monastery called St Peters was built, there are of course monks in a monastery, and hence we have 1/3 of the word, the last 2/3 is easily obtained the “monks” lived at the “mouth” of the river “Wear” and thus we have the complete word. If you care to read any more I will add one or two more facts – it was the first church in England to have glass in it and the original glass works or should I say the original “firm” is still here – in 867 it (the Church) was burned by the Danes – Bede did some of his Bible translation here and the rest at Jarrow a few miles away – St Peters was famous for its educational qualities long before Oxford, Cambridge or Durham – well I am not a Historian but I did dabble in Architecture and I hope the above facts are not in too much detail and do not bore you. I may as well give you the origin of Sunderland – it also goes back to Saxon times when it was called “Sonderlande” because – there are two reasons given now 1) Sunderland was supposed to mean the land owned by the monastery 2) Sunderland meant that the land owned by the monastery was cut asunder by the river – I don’t know which is correct. I believe I forgot to say that the new St Peters – built after the burning in 867 A.D. still stands and part of the original 674 A.D. building is still here. Well so much for that.
I am happy to say that I did not take Spanish at school – I did take French and German and found quite enough pitfalls in these without trying anything in Spanish. It seems I will have to start French or German again – because for an Honours Degree in Engineering some of the papers are on a foreign language – the idea is to show that you could read a foreign technical book.
I have just read your question on Monkwearmouth again and it seems I haven’t completely answered it – you asked what it was – I live in Sunderland but Sunderland is subdivided into districts, wards or parishes call them what you will, well the district I live in is Monkwearmouth. The districts are not villages and are only separated by streets or the river. They also have some names which go back to the Saxon times such as Fulwell & Millfield – these are again “built up” words like Monkwearmouth. I think that does answer your question now and I hope it hasn’t been boring. Have you any such arrangements in America?
As I promised I sent you a photo, it is a very poor one and makes me look about 90 however I kept my promise in spite of it. When I get some time off I will have a better one taken.
Well Bob Hope is now on the radio and I have run out of news now.
Love
Harold